Back in my sophomore year at Lincoln Park High School in my own sweet home, Chicago, my friends and I once had a problem with these two guys, "Diamond" and "BJ."
The problem wasn't so much that they had jumped my buddy after school, or that I had gotten punched twice in the face for intervening. It was that school security had emerged from the building and brought me and my friends inside — while Diamond and BJ sauntered away, watching.
What a conundrum: The school — adults, in general, really — hadn't hampered the likes of Diamond and BJ thus far, and we had little faith they'd do it now. Even if they were suspended, or expelled, their friends would know — and come at us. Diamond and BJ loomed big in those days, but the real problem was bigger than the both of them: Getting jumped was systemic. It happened all the time — particularly if you were white.
Awkward, isn't it? Who wants to tackle that? Certainly, adults didn't. But for us, it was an unspoken fact of life, and we felt that we were alone. So did "Guy," the subject of this week's cover story, when kids at South Philadelphia High School (SPHS) picked on him because he was Asian. But — unlike us — SPHS's Asian students had the guts to report such incidents to adults, long before more than 20 of their peers were beaten up after school on Dec. 3.
Schools Superintendent Arlene Ackerman — the ultimate adult here, in theory — has called the incident "everyone's problem" — exactly the kind of reaction (inaction, perhaps?) my friends and I anticipated when we decided to handle Diamond and BJ ourselves: We told them we wouldn't snitch and made a peace offering of a dime-bag of weed I found at the school's front door (true). It worked, but it didn't help anyone else — my little brother, for example, a freshman when I left.
"Everyone" hasn't been targeted at SPHS: Asians have been targeted. And "everyone" hasn't done the targeting. If the District wants to prove that Asians aren't being subjected to systemic discrimination, they should find out who those individuals are. The first thing they can do is actually listen to these kids, who, I promise, know what's up better than any adults.
What’s even sadder is that our great grandmothers and great grandfathers went through hell so that we could have an opportunity to a least try and learn.
Do any of these young people any idea how important an education is? Or do they realize how many or how much people have had to sacrifice just to get here so they can learn? Or the fact that black people were not allowed in school?
I hear all the time the Koreans this and the Jews that and the Hispanics this and so on but the truth is that our people have the same opportunity as anyone else.
Stop crying and b-tching and work your a-- off to get the same things, my godson bless his heart told me one day that he wants to be a football star I said that’s great but what about an education in case that falls through? You know a plan B?
We choose not to use it and then B-tch B-tch B-tch and don’t want to get off our lazy A—and do the damn thing. No we would rather intimidate and terrorize people who are trying to survive just like us.
Also it’s not up to the police your school counselor your pastor or anyone else; it all starts at home.
I have a saying which I heard from a well known comedian “I love people but I can’t stand Niggas, Niggas have you fighting over a piece of land nobody’s got the damn deed to.
And they come in all colors
People the world don’t owe you nothin and in case you have not heard it’s not getting any easier. Stop hating and procrastinating
get busy living or get busy dying.